Getting over boyfriend's past lovers

"Dear Housewife,

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly seven months now, and he is great. He constantly tells me that I am the best girlfriend he has ever had and that no one has ever made his life so complete. I truly love him and I feel like we have an awesome thing going for us. However I have recently not been able to get his past sexual partners out of my mind. I was a virgin when I met him and he has a past with 7 other girls. All but two were one time things, but they still really bother me. I don’t know how to let the past be the past with this. I constantly feel compared or judged, even though he has never said anything but positive feedback.

In a conversation we were having about his (somewhat crazy) ex girlfriend he said how I was so much better than her at sex, which I felt really good about because a comment he made earlier made it seem as though the best time he ever had with a girl was one of the girls he had dated for quite a while. However this was not the case, as the conversation continued I finally asked which one was the best, and he reluctantly told me that it was first girl A and then after her girl B would be the second best. So you can imagine my awkwardness and heartbreak. I mean what should I expect? He’s the only person I’ve ever had sex with and yet these girls could have countless partners.

I don’t want to ruin this otherwise near perfect relationship that I have with someone so amazing because of something like this. I know a relationship is built on so much more than sex but it really has me bothered beyond belief right now.


Thank you!"

 

Feeling Jealous

"Dear Housewife,

I got married 6 months, before marriage we know each other since 6 months,so its almost 1 year we know each other, our is an arranged marriage.

I have got a sister-In-Law, now she has come for her delivery.
Whenever my hubby talks very close with her or with any female i feel in secured.Especially when I'm in the office and my hubby goes with them leaving me, i feel very disgusted.
I do not know what exactly my stomach start growling. i feel somewhat.If i am also part of it i also enjoy the outing, even if they go out for something leaving me i feel very bad. I just cannot digest the fact that they are going without me.
If my hubby is not part of it i don't feel this bad, otherwise i feel very bad. I always want to be next to my hubby and i always want to be part of a group,i know I'm very possessive about him.

Even in my college days if someone ignores me in a conversation i used to feel very bad. Sometimes my hubby does to me Especially when he is talking to my Sister-In-Law he just ignores me or talks such topics where i am not related. I'm not complaining about my hubby but I'm not able to digest it.

Hope you understood my situation.
Please help me i know that i have got best family best hubby. But i don't know how to deal such situation.
Please give me some suggestions."