Girlfriend's Lack Of Interest In Sex

"Dear Housewife,

How do I help my girlfriend become more comfortable and more interested in sex?
We have been together for 2 and a half years and she is uncomfortable even talking about it."

Dear Reader,

Your girlfriend may come from a background where sex and anything relating to sex was not a talked about issue. If this is the case, then it is often times hard to overcome.

I would try an approach that is loving and caring.

Reassure her of your love and devotion and let her know that you would like her to share her thoughts and feelings about things regarding sex. Let her know that you will not think bad things about her if she has certain desires or feelings and that you want her to share those thoughts and feelings.

The more open you are with her about your thoughts and feelings in a loving way, the more open she will become as well.

If she does a certain thing that you like while being intimate, let her know that you really like it. This will help her confidence and can open a doorway for better communication.

Slowly, try to talk to her about things so that she does not feel pressured and resist talking.
If you take a slow approach and build upon it, then you may just realize that she has quite the sexual appetite, but has just been shy about it. Just give her time, and I'm sure that things will work out just great!
 
 
 
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